31-Year-Old TikTok Star Taylor Frankie Paul Lands Bachelorette – Why Age Matters Now

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By: Daniel Harris

Taylor Frankie Paul, the 31-year-old star of The Secret Lives of Mormon Wives, just landed The Bachelorette lead role Sept. 10 – and her age makes this ABC casting choice matter more than you’d think for 3 kids and two baby daddies.

Taylor Frankie Paul Becomes First Non-Bachelor Lead Sept. 10

ABC announced Taylor Frankie Paul as the Season 22 Bachelorette during her appearance on Call Her Daddy podcast Sept. 10. The 31-year-old reality star breaks franchise tradition – she’s never appeared on The Bachelor before.

ABC borrowed from Hulu’s roster instead. Taylor Frankie Paul rose to fame through MomTok on TikTok before starring in The Secret Lives of Mormon Wives, which earned its first Emmy nomination in July 2025. The show follows the group navigating a swinging sex scandal that made international headlines.

Season 22 of The Bachelorette premieres in 2026. Season 3 of The Secret Lives of Mormon Wives drops Nov. 13 with all 10 episodes at once.

Why Older Bachelorettes Connect More With Single Parent Viewers

Taylor Frankie Paul joins at 31 years old – the same age Gabby Windey was during her season. That’s 5 years older than most recent lead Jenn Tran, who was 26, and 4 years older than Charity Lawson at 27.

The age gap matters for single parents watching. Paul brings 3 kids into the equation – daughter Indy, 8, and son Ocean, 5, from ex-husband Tate Paul, plus son Ever born March 2024 with ex-boyfriend Dakota Mortensen. She’s only the second Bachelorette in franchise history with children.

“I have three kids, and I don’t wanna be Mom and Dad. That’s what I am now, and it’s really hard,” — Taylor Frankie Paul, Call Her Daddy podcast.

Lock These 5 Reality TV Moments Before Nov. 13 Mormon Wives Drop

Season 3 of The Secret Lives of Mormon Wives arrives Nov. 13 on Hulu. Here’s what you’ll want to catch up on before Taylor Frankie Paul starts handing out roses in 2026.

Step Detail Deadline
1 Watch Season 1 soft-swinging scandal that launched the show on Hulu Now
2 Stream Season 2 finale featuring Dakota Mortensen breakup drama Nov. 10
3 Follow Taylor Frankie Paul on TikTok for MomTok content (5.7M followers) Now
4 Check out Taylor’s CMA Awards presentation that became Season 2 plot point Nov. 13
5 Binge all Mormon Wives Season 3 episodes when they drop simultaneously Nov. 13

Watch For These 4 Signs Before Dec. 2025 As Bachelorette Filming Starts

The Bachelorette Season 22 filming should kick off late 2025 or early 2026 based on typical production schedules. These signals tell you what’s coming next.

Social media mentions of Taylor Frankie Paul spike above 500K on X when contestant casting announcements drop – typically happens 60-90 days before filming starts.

ABC releases official premiere date for Season 22 between Nov. 2025 and Jan. 2026. Previous seasons premiered in January or February, so watch for announcements during holiday season 2025.

Mormon Wives co-stars Jen Affleck and Whitney Leavitt finish their Dancing with the Stars Season 34 run this fall – their availability signals when Taylor might start filming since the cast stays connected.

Dakota Mortensen posts on social media increase dramatically. Paul predicted he’d be “sad” and “definitely watching” after learning about her casting Sept. 10 alongside the public.

Which Mormon Wives Star Will Dominate Bachelor Nation By 2026?

Taylor Frankie Paul isn’t the only Mormon Wives cast member crossing into ABC territory. Jen Affleck and Whitney Leavitt both landed spots on Dancing with the Stars Season 34 this fall.

The casting strategy shows Disney betting big on the MomTok phenomenon. The Secret Lives of Mormon Wives earned an Emmy nomination for outstanding unstructured reality program just months after its September 2024 debut.

Here’s what makes Paul’s crossover different: she’s leading an entire franchise season, not competing as a contestant. At 31 years old with 3 kids, she brings lived experience most Bachelorette leads lack. Will her unconventional path – from TikTok to Hulu to ABC – reshape how networks cast reality dating shows for older, parent audiences?

SOURCES

  • https://abcnews.go.com/GMA/Culture/bachelorette-season-22-taylor-frankie-paul/story?id=125403612
  • https://deadline.com/2025/09/the-bachelorette-season-22-taylor-frankie-paul-mormon-wives-1236519246/
  • https://www.nbcnews.com/pop-culture/pop-culture-news/secret-lives-mormon-wives-star-taylor-frankie-paul-bachelorette-rcna230282

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6 reviews on “31-Year-Old TikTok Star Taylor Frankie Paul Lands Bachelorette – Why Age Matters Now”

  1. Anyone else notice how Taylor Frankie Paul is breaking stereotypes as the first non-Bachelor lead? Will this shake up the shows dynamics or bring fresh perspectives? #BacheloretteRevolution

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  2. Ever notice how the Bachelorette age debate never gets old? First non-Bachelor lead, Taylor Frankie Paul, shakes things up. Do older Bachelorettes truly connect better with single parent viewers, or is it all just reality TV drama? Whats your take on age in the dating game?

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  3. Remember when the Bachelorette was always a fresh-faced 20-something? Now Taylor Frankie Paul, the 31-year-old TikTok sensation, is shaking up the scene. Will this shift bring new energy to the show or alienate the younger audience? How will this affect the dynamics of finding love on reality TV?

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  4. Remember the time when Taylor Frankie Paul made history as the first non-Bachelor lead? Now, landing the bachelorette role at 31, is age just a number in the world of reality TV romance? How will this change the game?

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  5. Anyone else notice how Taylor Frankie Paul is breaking barriers as the first non-Bachelor lead? Will this shift in casting choices bring a fresh perspective to the show or just more drama? #RealityTVRevolution

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  6. Remember when reality TV was all about drama and not age? Now weve got 31-year-old TikTok stars becoming Bachelorettes. Is this the evolution of the genre or a desperate attempt to stay relevant? Whats next, toddlers hosting dating shows?

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