@johnnygold
"It all relies on him"-James harden
Let me say this James Harden has been terrific this season. He has provided everything the rockets have needed, and he has easily been the best player in the league. I have only not watched two games this year and I haven't seen James Harden not accept the pressure when the time came. I have extreme bias towards him, and I have never made any negative comments towards him on any public forum, but I have to call a spade a spade. I personally believe he has grown tremendously in the leadership department, but I still think he is one step away from that next level. I personally have never heard a successful leader use phrases like "it all relies on him" and not be speaking about himself. I'm not saying he should put all the pressure on himself, but that phrase should not be coming from the teams best player and leader. What concerns me the most is the fact that it was said naturally and without hesitation.
Like I said before those comments only concerned me due to the fact that the following night he defered the pressure by not taking the last shot or attempting to even make a play. I have to admit that I also have last yrs playoffs in my mind as well, where I witnessed as did the rest of us witness James harden not show up when the pressure grew. People can argue that Portland had a great scheme to defend him, but with the eye test he didn't even look like he wanted to fight at times. I hate to use this word so many times, but during that series he defered to Dwight. I believe this team can win it all no matter who we face, but WE WILL NOT WIN IF JAMES HARDEN ONCE AGAIN "DEFERS". He has to go for the kill!!! He has to want to kill!!! He has to know that he is our killer!!! Lol
At this point continuing this is somewhat pointless as you have clearly made up your mind. I can't tell if there is a cultural disconnect or what is steering your perception the direction it is going, but I just don't see anything akin to what you are taking from this.
James Harden knows what his job is. He also knows that this team needs Dwight Howard on both ends of the court to be at its best and if anyone around here doesn't know that then I am not sure what they've been watching the last two seasons. Trying to build up a team mate is not weak--it's called leadership. As Adonneus discussed in his post (good post by the way), James wasn't shirking responsibility or backing away from anything. He was leading.
You pluck that one phrase out of James' interview while discarding the context of the questions he was being asked and everything else he said with it--including that, "yeah, me too" at the end in regards to who was going to carry the team.
I just don't think I can say much more without sounding like a bit of a jerk. We don't agree on any of this and the sad part is if things don't go exactly as you believe they should in the playoffs it will only serve to bolster this perception you have foisted upon James which has little reality to support it. I question which "successful leaders" you are listening to if you have never heard one build up their team/supporters above themselves.
Let's talk about something better. Dwight Howard, even at whatever percent of 2011 Dwight that we have (will he ever shed that monkey off his back? Certainly no one thought he would play like that forever, right?), is still one of the best defensive centers in this league, creates space for James on offense, is a release valve on the pick n roll (yes, they do run it people), and can create for himself if need be. I can count the number of centers in this league who fit that description on one hand.
The point is this: it does all rely on him. Anyone who thinks we are getting to the finals without Dwight is truly an optimist (read: delusional).
We aren't getting to the promised land by simply out-gunning the elite of the West. We will get there by out-scoring them and that will be because of our strong defense and not because James Harden straps some "trucknutz" to his sneakers and calls for a clear out every time down the court. So much swag, baby! 
Step off, role players, James needs to do his thang.
